Now You Have a Date yay!!!
Congrats, you finally got a date with a girl you hooked on a dating website. You guys been texting for a while exchanged pictures maybe a bit too racy to post online. Spoke on the phone…. just in case it wasn’t a too masculine tone lol….
But hey! that could happen too
That way she will hear your personality more. Then lead into going out and meeting. But with any online dating you want to make her feel comfortable so meet her in a social setting, don’t pick her up. Ask her to meet you for a drink. That’s always a great way to start a first date. That way if you aren’t interested or she isn’t then you can leave after the drink as to not cause any awkwardness!
Tips for you guys:
NO MOVIES DONT’ BE CHEAP AND DON’T BE FLIPPING YOUR MONEY
please avoid the movies on the first date…. seriously. She didn’t get all nice and ready to see Tom Cruise or Micheal Fassbender on a screen. She’s here for you, to see you, think about that.
And keep it casual and relax on a first date. Coffee at Tim Hortons, or any fast service coffee place (yes i’m Canadian) is a bit… cheap.
Go for a drink(of course if you’re a minor this blog isn’t for you lol)
No really, it’s the whole point of going on a date to look nice and well groom. As for me, it takes me the whole day to get ready and i don’t want to get all nice just to go for a coffee at Timmies or Starbuck.
There is a reason why i didn’t suggest diner as a first date. Simply, if things didn’t click at least the awkwardness will not be with a bill over 120$ and get home …. alone and not sure if she will want to see you again.
PLEASE AVOID THOSE 5 POINTS
While some dating mistakes are obvious, others can be trickier to recognize. In fact, you may not even know you’re making them. So, if you feel as if you are somehow going off track with your relationships, but aren’t really sure how, check to see if you are making any of these 5 dating mistakes:
1. Talking about your ex on your dates
Talking about your ex with your dates is never a good move. Women view men that can’t stop talking about their ex non-stop as having unresolved frustrations and pent-up bitterness. You don’t need to go into details about each and every past relationship you’ve ever had or how you were wronged during any date. She also doesn’t need to know exact names, dates or all the gross details about you and your ex’s sex life.
2. Sharing too much information
Don’t give out your resume on the first date. Some of your past is straightforward and can be discussed right then and there; however, the first date is not show and tell time.
3. Having a narrow focus
Always dating the same type of women and expecting different results is a recipe for disaster. Branch out of your dating comfort zone and give a chance to those women you haven’t previously considered (think age, looks, profession, interests). Remember that dating only women that you think of as your type has gotten you exactly where you are right now–single.
4. Expecting too much too soon
Nothing turns a woman off and sends her running away faster than a guy who starts moving too fast and expects instant attraction, love and devotion, or even instant great sex after only one or two dates.
5. Giving up power
Lots of guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants; becoming too considerate, too helpful and too kind in an effort to seemingly align their lives with a woman’s wishes. Don’t be one of them. Women don’t respect pushovers and they don’t feel attraction for “nice” guys who always kiss up to them.
this is a fast post no funny pics today lol probably next time
see you then 😉