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Please Don’t be Creepy

Please Don’t be Creepy

 

As Creep Week comes to a close again and we all start to feel like it’s safe to get back into the dating pool, I want to talk about the fear of being labeled “creepy”.

There are a lot of people – mostly the socially inexperienced – who worry about being called “creepy” by women and having it destroy their entire lives.  Because, as we all know, all women everywhere are connected to a powerful underground information sharing network, thus ensuring that anyone saddled with the “creeper” label shall never have sex again… not even with himself.

"Latest update ladies. Nick Twisp is on the No -Bone-List"

OK, I kid. But I understand the fear; most people don’t want to come across as creepy and worry about accidentally ruining an interaction with someone they’re attracted to. It can feel like you’re walking on a tightrope over a pit of flaming, judgmental sharks who are dying to rip your nipples off. Also, you’re doing so without a net. And the tightrope has been greased with all of your unused sperm and is also on fire.

But, like many of the emotional pitfalls and fuck-ups that come with dating, this is a matter that is entirely within your own control. Avoiding being a creeper is equal parts practical measures and self-awareness. Over the years, I’ve noticed some issues that correspond with people being unintentionally creepy, and working on those issues will help you avoid being a creeper.

Obligatory disclaimer: this is baseline behavior. You don’t get – nor should you expect – brownie points for not being a creeper. So with that in mind, let’s talk about some of the ways to avoid being creepy.

Calm The Hell Down

First and foremost: you need to calm down and relax. One of the most common issues with people who are socially inexperienced or socially awkward is that they get incredibly nervous and anxious when they’re talking to somebody they’re attracted to. Of course, the more nervous you get, the more aware you are about the possibility of saying or doing something unfortunate, which makes you even more nervous… turning the whole thing into one giant self-perpetuating feedback loop that culminates with your making an awkward joke about her boobs.

There’s nothing wrong with being nervous – in fact, there’s a pretty strong correlation betweennervousness and physical arousal – but letting your nerves get out of control can make the people around you uncomfortable, too. A quirk of our brain’s development means that physical sensations are contagious. Ever wince in sympathy when you see someone stub their toe? Or watch a room full of guys flinch simultaneously when they see someone get hit in the nuts? This is a result of mirror-neurons in our brains triggering an empathetic response in us. As I’ve mentioned many times before, our body controls our brains, often leaving our moods dependent on our physical state. When we’re nervous, we make other people nervous – they’re starting to unconsciously mirror our physical state. It also doesn’t help that you’re unconsciously putting a lot of pressure on the other person to direct and control the interaction – and that makes them uncomfortable. As a result: they’re feeling awkward, uneasy, even a little nervous themselves – and thanks to misattribution of arousal, they’re associating their nervousness with you.

Add in the short, twitchy movements that people tend to make when they’re nervous and you look like you’re possibly prepping to launch yourself at the person you’re talking to. You are just trying to think about not saying something about butts, she thinks you’re mentally measuring how many lampshades you can make out of her skin and now she’s getting ready “nope” the hell out of there all the way to FuckThatShitVille.

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So what do you do? You control your nerves by controlling your body. The quickest and easiest way to calm yourself down is to control your breathing. Breathe in slowly, hold it for the count of three, then breathe out for a count of 5. Repeat this several times – taking a deep breath, holding it, letting it out. This breathing exercise will help slow your heart rate down, making you feel less nervous.

Next, stand up straighter. Simply adjusting your posture, straightening your spine, opening your chest and letting the tension drain out of your body provides an immense and immediate boost to your sense of confidence and keeps you from sending the “I’m nervous” vibe via your body language. Finally, slow yourself down, physically and mentally. Let your gestures be longer and looser instead of tight and twitchy. Don’t be in a rush to respond; give yourself a moment or two to let your mouth catch up with your brain. You’ll appear more thoughtful, conveying that you’re paying attention to what she’s saying rather than just waiting for your turn to talk. In reality, you’re giving yourself more breathing room so you don’t accidentally blurt out something about how much you’ve been staring at her lips… but she doesn’t have to know that.

People will take their cues from you. The more you relax, the more they’ll be relaxed. And not only will you avoid seeming creepy, but you’ll feel more confident and at ease.

Recognize Creepy Behavior (And Signs That You’re Being Creepy)

If you want to avoid being creepy by accident, then you have to work on your social calibration. Behavior that may be welcome in the right context – touching, for example – can be incredibly creepy under different circumstances. Making a risqué or even potentially offensive joke can likewise be either something welcome or threatening depending on circumstance and context. The people who are able to, say, make jokes about having raunchy sex without being creepy are people who are socially well-calibrated and can read their intended audience. Same with touching or moving in from “social” space (approximately 4 to 8 feet) to personal or intimate space ( 1.5 feet and 1 foot, respectively): you have to understand when it is appropriate to do so, otherwise you risk looking aggressive or even predatory.

Social calibration is the difference between turning into a hug and "touch me again and you pull back a bloody stump."

The thing is: you can’t expect other people to tell you when you’re being creepy.  As I’ve said many a time before: women are socialized to be indirect and to avoid being too “forward” with men; part of that socialization means that they’re going to be hesitant to raise a fuss over somebody else’s behavior… even when yelling at the asshole is damned well deserved and appropriate. All too often, women have learned the hard way that making a scene can only make things worse; part of what many predators and creepers get off on is the person’s discomfort and will actually escalate if somebody protests. Making things more complicated, women often get blamed for inciting their own harassment while people are all-too-eager to make excuses for the creeper. It’s on you to look for the signs of discomfort and recognize when you’re standing too close or saying something that makes her skin crawl.

I’ve written extensively about creepy behavior and how to read the signs, as have many others. The resources for learning what is and isn’t creepy behavior are out there. Use them.

Take Responsibility

Part of the learning process is being willing to take ownership of your actions. Remember what I just said about learning social calibration? That’s on you to do. Other people aren’t obligated to tell you that you’re being creepy or to teach you how not to be a creeper. If someone offers to help, then great; take ‘em up on it. But people, especially the women you’re attracted to, are not there to teach you how to not freak them out. If you’re having problems with finding boundaries or reading emotions, then it’s on you to learn how to correct the problem.

This is something I see come up over and over again on message boards and subreddits – demanding that women teach “awkward” guys how not to creep on them, similar to the people who insist on the Socially Awkward Exception. As with the SAE, the underlying message of this demand is that women’s desire to feel safe and their right to set their own boundaries – or to be approached in the manner they prefer –  is not as important as the right for men to get what they want. This attitude is inherently creepy; it posits that women are there for your use.1

The other side of taking responsibility is understanding that you don’t get to decide other people’s comfort levels. There are almost always people who will complain that someone thought that they were unfairly labeled as “creepy” and they couldn’t possibly have been because reasons. And while I do sympathize with feeling that you’re being misunderstood, but just because you didn’t think you weren’t being creepy doesn’t mean that they didn’t feel creeped out by you. People get to set their own comfort to whatever arbitrary levels they decide are appropriate, and this isn’t up for discussion. Hard and fast rule: you can’t argue your way out of being creepy

"As you can see, according to section 5, sub-paragraph 9a, clause iv, my behavior is by definition, charming."

There is no appeals process, you don’t get to plead your case before a jury of her peers and, quite frankly, sticking around to argue the point makes you look like you’re an alien in a human suit trying to conduct breeding experiments with the locals.

Now, to forestall the obvious: yes, occasionally you will run into people who will call you “creepy” just because they like to insult people, not because you actually did anything wrong. These people are assholes. They have self-selected themselves into the “avoid” pile and you should be grateful because why the fuck would you want to talk to someone who treats people like that? But if you’re running into more assholes than Seymour Butts at Analpalooza, then sometimes you have to acknowledge that you’re the common denominator and address your behavior.

Apologize 

Straight talk time: fuck-ups happen. You can do everything right and still end up tripping over somebody’s emotional land-mine that you had no way of knowing existed. Even the most skilled seducers and socially calibrated diplomats will screw up. I’ve lost track at how many times I’ve ended up tripping over my metaphorical dick and misreading a situation or moving faster than I should have.

Want to know the easiest way to avoid being a creeper by accident? When you realize you’ve done something wrong, you take a (literal) step back and apologize. Seriously. The act of giving some space and delivering a simple and sincere apology can diffuse the tension and turn you from being a “creeper” back into “the good guy I was enjoying talking to.”

But you have to do it right. You make that apology short, simple and sincere. You don’t dwell on the mistake, you don’t put on a production begging her forgiveness, you don’t beat yourself up over it. You don’t freak out or try to bowl her over with how abjectly horrified you are. Despite the words, this is literally the opposite of apologizing; you’re not saying you’re sorry, you’re making it all about your discomfort and asking her to reassure you.

"I'm sorry I couldn't resist the siren call of  your incredible, supple breasts! PLEASE! YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE ME!"

Similarly, you don’t try to deflect responsibility; the “sorry you misunderstood me” or “sorry you were offended (but you shouldn’t have been)” non-apologies just confirm that you’re being a dick.

Now here’s the critical part: after having apologized, don’t do it again. The whole point is to acknowledge that yes, you made a mistake but now you know better. Making the same mistake again – or other boundary-testing behavior for that matter – carries the message that you’re not sorry that you made a mistake, you’re sorry you got caught and you’re going to try again as soon as you think you’ve got an opening.

Finally: after your apology has been accepted, then drop it. Seriously. Just like making a production makes your apology all about you, refusing to let the subject go is just going to reinforce that it happened and make it impossible to forgive and forget. Handling a mistake with grace will leave people feeling comfortable in your presence. Getting stuck on it is just going to indicate that you have low emotional intelligence and leave them feeling uncomfortable.

So again, the process of handling a screw-up is: give some space, apologize, don’t do it again and then move on.

Women Are Not Your Adversaries

A lot of people who worry about being called creepy have a tendency to see women as opponents. Whether it’s because of low self-esteem or having bought into the commodity model of sex and see sex as something that has to be “negotiated” for, they come into interactions with women with a sense of antagonism. Take the idea of “creep-shaming”, for example: the idea that women use calling men “creepy” as a way of wielding power over them and gleefully ostracizing men because… well, nobody’s exactly explained why. Evidently because all women are basically Maleficent, throwing out curses and condemning men to a sexless existence because FUCK YOU, THAT’S WHY.

In fairness, you'd be in a pissy mood too after the 100th 'it's not easy being green' joke.

 

The “you’re only creepy if you’re ugly” crowd is another example. In both cases, this mix of frustrated entitlement and antagonism is going to creep into everything you do; it’s going to leak into your body language, and your “ha ha, just kidding” attempts at humor. Even if it’s not overt, the incongruity between the face you’re trying to present and the body language you’re actually presenting is going to leave women unsettled and uncomfortable.

At the other end of the extreme are the people who are deathly afraid of being creepy and worry that any little thing they do is going to be seen in the worst possible light. This ends up sabotaging their attempts to interact with women because they’re half-convinced that women are assuming they’re a creeper in advance and are just waiting for the excuse to reject them.

Straight talk time: women want you to be that cool guy they’ve always dreamed of meeting. They’re  hoping you’re awesome. Yes, they have to worry about their safety; the world’s a shitty place andwomen are vulnerable in ways that men just aren’t. But acknowledging the reality doesn’t mean that they view all men as the enemy; it just means they have to be careful. And by paying attention to their concerns and being conscious of how you’re coming across, you can avoid being creepy by accident and show that you’re that amazing guy they’ve been looking for.

 

No More Mr Nice Guy

No More Mr Nice Guy

 

So. Stop me if this Craigslist blast from the past sounds vaguely familiar:

You might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He’d tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn’t feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were “just friends.” Besides, he totally wasn’t your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn’t know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren’t the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you’re single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, “What happened to all the nice guys?”

That, my friends, is the sound of the impotent nerd-rage of The Nice Guy. Ladies, you know this guy. He’s the one who follows you around saying he was your friend, all the while holding on to his not-so-secret agenda of trying to eventually woo you off your feet. Or, more accurately, hoping that you’d see he’s incredible and making the first move for him. Or at he’s hoping to at least wear down your endurance until you give in.

Hey, nothing says “Love machine!” like a short, balding, overweight guy with entitlement issues! Am I right ladies?

If this sounds at all like you, then you need to know something:

YOU PUT YOURSELF THE FRIEND ZONE AND IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT.

It’s time to quit blaming women for liking “bad boys” and start figuring out what it is you can do about it.

“But women say they want to date a nice guy! I’m nice! Why won’t they date me?”

Let’s examine a so-called “nice guy” for a second. A “nice guy”, as the Craigslist ranter above points out, they’re the ones who’re running around with the girl, taking them shopping, buying them gifts, taking them out to dinner, spending all their time with them… and getting nowhere. And getting frustrated by getting nowhere despite all his effort. And crying angry impotent tears. And then sitting at home masturbating and using his tears as lube.

Let’s be honest: you’re not a friend. You’re an Orbiter. You can hover around her as long as you want, but you’re never going to actually come in contact with her heavenly body. Now, granted youdo provide a valuable service. To start with, you’re providing free food, gifts and entertainment for others. And you provide a great warning to others.

When a girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy, she’s saying one of two things:

1) “I should be attracted to a nice guy… but I’m not”

or

2) “I wish I could meet a guy who isn’t a complete dickbag but also actually excited me.”

This should tell you everything you need to know about being a “nice guy”.

Nice guys are passive.
Nice guys are clingy.
Nice guys are predictable.
Nice guys are boring.

Don’t get me wrong here. It’s not as though I’m saying women love being neglected, emotionally or physically abused or cheated on. Nobody is sitting around saying “I’ll call her a worthless whore. Bitches love being called worthless whores.” So what is it about these “bad boys” that revs a woman’s engine?

It’s all about behavior and attitudes. Let’s break it down.

Confidence:

They have a swagger in their walk. Their chests puff out. Their heads are held high. Their presence fills a room. They take up space. They speak loudly. They know, deep down in their souls, that they are, frankly, the shit. Their posture and body language tells you that this is a man who can’t hear you over the sound of how awesome he is.

Contrast this with your typical Orbiter. Your archetypal “nice guy”. They tend to be a little hunched over. They’re soft-spoken. They’re hesitant. They seem to fold in slightly on themselves. They don’t want to make too much trouble or attract too much notice. They prefer being alone with “their” girl because they know instinctively they can’t hold off any competition.

Nice guys have a tendency to be risk averse and a corresponding fear of rejection. They don’t want to take the chance that they’ll make a move and ruin everything, not when they could take their time and live in the vague hope that “maybe she’ll learn how awesome I am and come to me,” This frequently springs from a scarcity mentality, or what I like to call One-itis: the idea that there’s only this one girl who can be this perfect and if it falls apart, it’s all over and they’ll never know love again.

Bad boys? They know that they can have that woman if they want. They aren’t following women around, hoping for crumbs of approval, looking for the slightest hint that there is a chance that she likes him. They assume it’s already a foregone conclusion and make their move accordingly. If she doesn’t like him? Well, hell, there’s more women out there; time to move on and find someone better. This sort of abundance mentality keeps them from being completely hung up on the idea that they have one shot.

Aggressiveness:

See that critical part there? The one about making their move? Bad boys are aggressive. They’re assertive. They’re the types of people who will see what they want and just go for it. Time spent wringing one’s hands in agony over the possibility of being rejected is time that’s not spent actually getting the girl.

Nice Guys are frequently masters of the art of passive-aggressiveness. Because they don’t want to take risks, they put their efforts into manipulating the social contract instead. Nice Guys love to use the rule of reciprocity. This is part of why they put so much emphasis on being the ones who will take their girl “friends” shopping or out to dinner. After all, they’ve made a point of doing something for her… now she should to do something nice for them. It seems like the guy is doing something out of the kindness of his heart but, subconsciously or otherwise, they’re trading on the fact that the girl will feel a certain obligation to them in return.

Bad boys can be manipulative, yes. But the fact of the matter remains: they’re willing to be the ones to make an actual move. They don’t wait for the woman to take the initiative and they certainly don’t spend weeks, months, sometimes even years looking for a hint.

Does she have a boyfriend? Hey, she’s allowed to change her mind. It’s not like there’s a ring on that finger.

Nice guys wait for an opportunity. Bad boys make opportunities.

Uncontrollable:

Women love a challenge. Part of the appeal of a bad boy is the idea of being the one who can contain or even change him.

An example: Back in the day, Warren Beatty was a known rake and man about town. He cut a swathe through Hollywood’s female celebrities like a hot knife through butter. He was considered to be Hollywood’s most eligible bachelor and every gossip rag wanted to know who the woman would be who could finally tame him.

Notice that specific word choice. “Tame”. Like he’s some sort of wild beast and only some special woman has the ability to bring him to heel. And you know what? Most women wanted to be that special woman. That was part of his appeal; every woman wanted to take their shot at landing him.

Bad boys have attitude to spare. They’ll be challenging to women; they’ll be sarcastic, they’ll bust a girl’s (metaphorical) balls. They’ll play hard to get. They can be hard to pin down.  They don’t give in to emotional manipulation or blackmail, and they have a certain willingness to move on if they feel the need. Think of stray cats; they’ll show up to places that feed them on their own terms, allow someone one to give them some affection and then move on. They might come back. They might not.

Bad boys represent a challenge. Women see them and think “Oh, I can take him. I can fix him. I can domesticate him. I can totally make him mine.”

Nice guys, on the other hand, come pre-broken in. There is no challenge to them. Nice guys are so worried about ruining their chances with that “one special girl” that they’re afraid to look at them crosswise, never mind sass them back. They run too and fro like little puppies fetching things and wagging their tails in hopes of getting a treat.

How To Be “Bad”…

Too many “nice guys” eventually come to the conclusion that if girls like bad boys, well, then BY GOD they’re going to be bad! They’ll be the baddest of the bad. And the end result…

Well, it tends to go one of two ways. Some make a show being bad; they try to dress like rockstars, get big sunglasses and ripped jeans and walka round with a sneer, talking a big game that they could never pull off. It’s the nerd equivalent of watching a miniature poodle strut around with a spiked collar. The guys who go in the other direction end up skipping “Bad” all together and just become bitter assholes.

Thing is, there’s nothing wrong with being nice. The problem is being a “nice guy”. So don’t be a “nice guy”. Take those aspects of the bad boy that girls find so appealing and learn how to incorporate them without becoming the sort of jerk that they’re associated with

Be a little more sarcastic. Be a lot more confident. Be a little harder to pin down. Be a lot more aggressive.

Be a good guy.

With a creamy bastard center.

De retour… I am back

 

so kawaiiYes indeed

But with a lot of changes on this blog.

My interest about about manga (more hentai and yaoi 😛 ) didn’t withered with lots of changes that about in the scanlate scene, it became more difficult to share that passion with the rest of the world. Mostly because of the millenium act, copyright infringement BOOHOO. So all the files(zip, rar manga) i had stored will be kept for my personal use. Even the website i dearly liked (my pusher lol) was taken down. Actually hacked. Yes you may which website i’m talking about.

Anyway, let’s leave that to the past and move on for other interests.

I will still read manga, but at a less pace than before. I still watch anime, but not a lot catches my interests.

*sigh*

So boring getting old lol

Anyway(voice of Meow’s Otōto Space Dandy ep. 10 lol)

In the future, you will mostly hear me dropping few lines giving few advice about online websites…

so stay tuned to hear me out about online dating or relationship in general.

It’s been a while…

As you may realized, you are no longer able to download any files….

Unfortunately, as you may seen on some files sharing website, they were put down for copyright infringement.

So there you go, all my files were gone. Not all, mostly the yaoi ( some of you may not care lol)

The hentai files remained untouched

HENTAI http://www.mediafire.com/?3wu843khjwrii

nothing new in there i can’t add anymore files lol i maxed up my allowed storage.

 

As for Yaoi, unfortunately, it’s all gone.

I may eventually open another file sharing account. But don’t hold on your breath because the uploading takes a while

 

Till then, jya

 

 

 

Hell on Earth… And it Started in Japan

We all heard about what happened in the news what’s going in the pacific ocean area.

I found a useful link to keep track of the latest news. ( click here)

If it’s possible for you send money to Red Cross or any reliable humanitarian organization. Not only Japan but also to countries who were affected by the Tsunami and the Earthquake.

I have family members living in Japan in the Okinawan prefecture, they are safe except with the flood and lack food shipments but they are most worried of what will happen next or even the next day

Japan have a lot of covering because by the high threat level.
Hundreds flee as ash and rock shoots two miles into air, The Shinmoedake volcano in the Kirishima range in south-western Japan erupted. The 8.9-magnitude earthquake was triggered by the resulting seismic activity.
lately, one of the Nuclear pant was caught on fire.

Here’s a link with Satellite images show utter devastation left behind by tsunami of few areas in Japan – BEFORE AND AFTER –

Nuclear plants…
News of a serious radiation leak at the Fukushima nuclear plant has sparked panic buying in Tokyo, as some residents started to leave the capital to escape potential contamination. And there’s like no food left on the shelves. It’s hard to bag find bags of rice or any dry meals. And since everybody is in alert, find food will be hard to find after, local rice and vegetable farmer price might not be available because of the damaged crops and be affected with radiation.

As officials urged people living near the stricken plant to stay indoors, residents in the capital, 150 miles to the south, began preparing for the possibility of a similar lockdown.

The number of people stranded at Narita airport, near Tokyo, rose after airlines canceled flights but officials said there had been no surge in passenger numbers.

Air China cancelled flights to Tokyo from Beijing and Shanghai. Other airlines in the region said they were monitoring the situation but had no immediate plans to cancel services.

South Korea has urged its nationals in Japan to stay away from the quake zone while Germany advised its citizens to consider leaving the country.

The French embassy warned that a radioactive wind could reach Tokyo on Tuesday evening and advised its citizens to leave.

Britain’s Foreign Office advised against all non-essential travel to Tokyo and north-eastern Japan. “Our advice is people should take their lead from the Japanese authorities,” the Foreign Office minister Jeremy Browne told Sky News.

The US state department urged its citizens to avoid tourism and non-essential travel to Japan. “[Our] travel advice is not to go to that part of Japan in any case unless you have an extremely compelling reason for doing so,” it said.

Japan’s government has ordered people within 12 miles of the Fukushima No 1 plant, about 150 miles north-east of Tokyo, to evacuate. Those living between 12 and 19 miles from the plant were told to stay indoors due to fears of exposure to radiation.

At least nine people have tested positive for radiation exposure near Fukushima, but a Nisa official said that number could rise to between 70 and 160. Radioactivity can cause a variety of health problems, from a reddening of the skin and increased cancer risk to fatal radiation sickness. Health officials distributed potassium iodide pills, which protect against thyroid cancers, to residents near the power station. Those unable to leave were advised to limit their exposure by staying indoors and switching off air conditioning or wearing a protective mask if outside.
And there were an alert that if it starts to rain it’s better to stay inside. Acid rain….

My god those guys are so not lucky

Just how much more can one country take ? My sympathy and thoughts are for family members people who are dealing with tragedy and suffering moments, may this beautiful country and culture rise up after all those adversities

On a little note:
Heres a little fanpage link if you want to know if your IDOL is safe(Few of Them);
http://my-lovely-jinjin.tumblr.com/

New Batch… again

Once again (like the cherry cookies I’m baking for my Hubby-sama) i have few ;O_O to share. Lately, I’ve been reading some BARA manga it’s quiet interesting and… manly lol

The most popular mangaka i found is MATSU Takeshi and UCHIDA Kaoru(my fav’). If you know more, drop me a comment I’ll appreciate that. If you are not familiar, here a link from wiki. Not the best source, but at least you’ll get the meaning BARA WIKI

There’s a few magazine cover that got me interested, but i can’t find the mangaka’s name neither her/his work… Soooooo cute!!!!!!!!!!!

Being said, the bottle is in the sea;) Let me know if you have any info or links

Here goes of the new added files list. I hope you can find some manga you were looking for. I know some of them are hard to find.

Reason: link is broken or licensed

(c) complete

(n) novel

(L) Licensed

as at 0905 am eastern time it’s uploading lol, bare with it for few moments

NEW ADDED LIST

AGAWA Kouko – Kin no Ouji to Gin no Ou(L)
AJIMINE Sakufu – Koi wa Maiorita
AKIRA Norikazu – Koisuru Cupid
AKIZUKI Kou – Halfmoon Emotion
ANAN Yukako – REAL ch1-2-3-5 extra
ARAI Sachi – Tomodachi Over
ARAYA Miki – Geboku ni Narimasu
ASOU Kai – Hokenshitsu Made Nan M ch1+3
ASOU Kai – Square na Kankei
ASOU Kai – Tonari no Oniisan
Anna HOLLMAN – Stupid Story ch1-6 (L)
CHIBA Ryouko – Sensei, Kiss Shite Ii desu ka
FUJISAKI Kou – From 701 Gousitsu
FUJISAKI Kou – Kemono wa Ai de, Iyasareru
FUJISAKI Kou – Oboreru Kemono no Koibito
FUJIYAMA Hyouta – Akutai wa Toiki to Mazariaus(L-C)
FUJIYAMA Hyouta – Akutai wa Ude no Naka de Futatabi
FUWA Kiriko – Tatoeba Sore wo Koi to Yobunara
FUWA Shinri – Gravity Eyes DJ Milk & Bitter
FUWA Shinri – Gravity Eyes v01+ v2
FUWA Shinri – Machina Angelus
Fujino Akitsugu – Togainu no Chi DJ NO Substance
GOKURAKUIN Sakurako – Sekai no Owari ga Furu Yoru ni
HIGASHIZATO Kirico – Invoke ch1-4(L) DROPPED
HIGASHIZATO Kirico – Love Recipe v1 +v2
HIYOSHIMARU Akira – Koi Mane
HOSHINO Lily – Toritsu Mahou Gakuen v1+v2
IKE Reibun – Choroize Jigoku
INARIYA Fusanosuke – Close your Eyes
INARIYA Fusanosuke – Giglio(HQ)
ISHIMARU Hiroko – Koisuru Kimochi wa Zettai Fukujuu! (L)
KAIYA Tatsumi – Nikutai Kankei (L)
KAIYA Tatsumi – Party
KAMO Nabako – Aikotoba wa Hallelujah(C)
KAMO Nabako – Emono no Kimochi
KAMON Saeko – Koibito wa Hatsujouki
KAMON Saeko+ASUMA Risai – Royal Fiancé
KANZAKI Takashi – Dear Green
KANZAKI Takashi – Dear Green – Hitomi no Ounowa  v01+v02+v03
KANZAKI Takashi – Junai Fetizm
KANZAKI Takashi – Retsujou Kyoumushitsu
KANZAKI Takashi – Suki Dakedo!
KARIKAWA Seyu – Otonage
KAWAKAMI Chike – Love Focus
KIRISHIMA Tamaki – Shachou no Ojikan(L)
KIRISHIMA Tamaki – Shiba to Issho(L)
KIRIYU Kiyoi – Love Home
KITAZAWA Kyou – Dolce
KUJOU Aoi – Jewel1-L-egg DJ
KUJOU Aoi – Jewel2 DJ
KUJOU Aoi – Jewel3-Piyo DJ
KUJOU Aoi – Jewel4-Purisoshiparu DJ
MACHIYA Hatoko – Nekasenaide
MENTAIKO – Swift as Lightning
MINASE Masara – Usotsuki na Kimi no Toriko ch1-4
MIYAMOTO Kano – Vanilla ch6
MIZUKAMI Shin – Kirigakure no Koi
MIZUNA Mai – Aitsu no Heart ni Hi wo Tsukero
MOTONI Modoru – Koi ga Bokura wo Yurusu Hani v1+v2+v3
NAONO Bohra – Please Give Me Oneshot
NAONO Bohra – Zurui Otoko
NISHIMURA Shuuko – Uruwashiki Wana
NOBI Nobita – Kimi no Kao ni Sasu Kage
NOBI Nobita – Kokui no Mure
NOMO Marino – Tonari no Usotsuki
NOMORI Mina – Okubyou na Yubisaki
OGASAWARA Uki – One Night Resort
OKADAYA Tetuzoh – The Man of Tango(L)
OOTSUKI Miu – Ai dano Koi dano ch 1
OOTSUKI Miu – Calling ch5
OOTSUKI Miu – Melancholic Mellow Mellow ch 1
OUMI Aco – Momoiro Junjou Danshi
OUMI Shinano  – Crystal Harem
OUMI Shinano – Guren no Kusari
OUMI Shinano – Hisuiiro no Kaze(C)
OYAMADA Ami – Startline
PANCO – Body Talk Paradox ch1-2
SAIKI Keita – Sanzen Sekai no Karasu wo Koroshi
SAKIRA – Bousou Kareshi ch3+4
SAKURA Haiji – Kannou Kissaten
SAKURA Haiji – Omoi Shire
SAKURAGI Yaya – Koicha no Osahou v4(L)END
SASAMURA Gou – Sensei’s Virtuous Kiss oneshot
SHIMADA Hisami – Virgin Star
SHIMADA Nimosaku – Kyuuketsuki ni Aisareru Houhou(L)
SHIMAJI – Koi no Chime
SHIMOTSUKI Kairi – Heaven’s Love
SHIMOTSUKI Kairi – Inferior Doll ch1
SHOOWA –  Non Tea Room
TAKAKURA Tomoko – Kataomoi no Nouki
TATENO Makoto – Cage
TATENO Makoto – Gerbera
TATENO Makoto – Hero Heel v1+v2+v3
TATENO Makoto – Like the Barren Wasteland
TATENO Makoto – Martini Kouryakuhou
TATENO Makoto – Myuuzu Gakuen de Aou v1
TATENO Makoto – Prince Sapphire + artwork
TATENO Makoto – Steal Moon v1+v2
TATENO Makoto – Warui Yume
TATENO Makoto – Yokan ~Presentiment~
TOJITSUKI Hajime – Les Sciences et les Fantaisies
TOKUMARU Yoshitaka – Niresaki Kyouju no Hirusagari no Kenkyuushitsu
Together with Oni-chan(ADULT18+)
UMETAROU – Aijin wa Korosareru v1+v2
UMETAROU – Kanashii (Itoshii) Kotoba
YAMADA Yugi – Shinuhodo Suki (C)
YAMAKAMI Riyu – Hada Made Aishite
YAMAKAMI Riyu – Nanji no Na wa Ai
YAMAKAMI Riyu – Saikou no Kimi (oneshot)
YAMAKAMI Riyu – Tameiki no Kuchizuke
YAMAKAMI Riyu – Tobu Kokoro
YAMAKAMI Riyu – Tokimeki no Seito Kaishitsu v1+v2
YAMAKAMI Riyu – renai jikaku shoujou
YUKIMURA – Rush!
YUUYA – Venus +

More on their way 😉 till then….

OMG this guy is really hot ;O_O

BTW no use to hotlink, i make changes every now and then in those folders..;)